Be satisfied Be Happy

Sometimes when we walk out of the home we noticed some people sleeping by the side of the road. In Bangladesh, India and so many other poorer countries peoples are well known of this views. There are so many people in this world those who haven't their own house, they sleeps wherever the got place. They do not have money. Sometimes they beg and feed themselves or sometimes they are starved for several days. Winter is a comfortable season for us but a harrowing season for them. They haven't any warm cloth. At the night of winter they wear a simple thin sheets and sleeps under the open sky.
Just think...they are also human beings, take a second and just imagine their conditions. Suppose you were one of them, Then??  What happened?
We think our lives are full of sorrows,sadness,imperfections. Every person in this world are just busy of themselves. They are sinking themselves in their own thoughts.Who cares what's happening in others lives.Who cares of those road sides homeless people and that's the cause we became depressed at some point of life.
There are always something to be happy, to smile about in our life while there are millions who cannot fulfill the basic needs of life.On the other hand,we don't even think about these ever in our life.
I don't want to say you shouldn't have a dream or some desires to want more in your life.Yes,obviously you should have a big dream or an aim to achieve. And you have to make a plan and work hard for it.In that case, you have to face a lot of difficulties and obstacles, You must because you know that their is "No pains, No gains”. Yet u feel down, when you fail to achieve something you want, why you are fallen down? Why you think yourself a loser? At some point many of them thoughts there is no point to live. They lost their self-confidence too.

So when you feel sad about life just remember those who have nothing in their life to survive,actually.To become something in life or to achieve something you have to focus in your dreams,work hard & have patience but if you remain sad or down or depressed, you can't plan anything or create a great idea to work on and to be happy in your current situation you must be satisfied what you have because _
"the life that you are living now,is also a dream of millions. So always be satisfied with your life.Be happy in every moment of life"

Written by : Sinthia Anis

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Power of Busyness

Stay busy to avoid sadness.
"Active natures are rarely melancholy.Activity and sadness are incompatible"_christian bovee

Sometimes you are just sad.Whether it's the holiday season,your birthday,anniversary or other special occasion,you can inexplicably feel sadness.It may be that the occasion itself reminds you of a loss,especially if the loss was recent,painful.You might be sad because you know you didn't behave with the best of intentions.You could also be sad because you did nothing  when you know you should have done something.
Perhaps you are sad because you tend to sit at home and mope about what's wrong in your life.It could also be that you have a physical condition that needs attention or diagnosis by a medical professional and you have been putting off getting a check up,worried that there might be something seriously wrong.These can result in sadness.They also have one thing also in common: Inactivity.
The best prescription to get over sadness -not clinical depression, mind you which requires professional help,but general sadness of a temporary nature -is to get busy.That's right.

"You can really only enjoy life when you're extremely busy"_
                Josephine de La Baume

No ones life is perfect.Every person you meet in your life have their own sorrows.But there are always something to be happy with in your life.So why?? Why you are sitting & thinking about those sad memories?Why you are losing your valuable times.Just forget those sadness & make your life beautiful.I know it's not easy but if you try properly it's possible.
Mind it- sitting at home will do nothing to help erase sadness.While going out to be with others may be help you to avoid sadness.To be busy is the best cure to erase your sadness/bad memories.If you really want to forget something or make yourself cheerful you have make yourself busy with something/social work/some creative works(that kind of works which make your body & mind both engaged).If you continuously remain yourself busy with some productive works or whatever else at some point you will find yourself that you have no time to be sad & when it's became your habit you will be the happiest person because those who have no time to think they have no time to be sad.
Use the power of being Busy.

Written by : Sinthia Anis

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Judgements

There is a race between students of every age of securing first position in every sort of examination rather it is a pre learner or a matric student. It's valid to secure good marks but it is not good to judge a child on the basis of his result. We ruin our child's own identity and personality by scolding them, taunting them and make them feel embarrassed because of taking less marks. We compare them with the other kids of relatives and neighborhood and make them think that they are nothing on their own and their own abilities means nothing. They are useless. They are dull. Every human has his own capabilities and are different from one another. These tests and exams doesn't define how much a child is intelligent. His own competencies, abilities, thinking and interests defines his inner beauty and intelligence level in him and differentiates him with the others. Kids have to go through variety of subjects so the level of their interest is different for each subject. Some subjects appear to be easy for some students but at the same time some students feel difficulty understanding those subjects not because they are dull or they don't pay attention ( in most cases ). They may have problem in understanding the new concepts in the first attempt or they may have problem with the teachers explaining method or they are afraid to ask the teacher for again explaining the same thing. Similarly when we forcefully make a child to study the particular subject of our choice, it would become a burden on him. It would be inconvenient for him to carry out result if he is not interested in that subject or he doesn't get it. The selection of the field/ subject must be left on child after his proper career counselling. He must be given advices for right choice but shouldn't be forced to study a subject on behalf of parents or teachers. How is the child going to bear the burden or stress which would let him drowned in the flood of pressurized study. Here I would like to quote the words of a great motivational speaker "Qasim Ali Shah" ... "You are born for the work which takes you out of time and space." And what do we do? We force our children to study the field of our choice or the one which ensures money in the practical work. As a result, having no interest and aptitude for the particular field, they get fail or attempt suicide in case of extreme depression because of their family. And if they let themselves live and bear the brutal treatment, they become psychopaths or let themselves on the wrong path destroying their future with their own hands. I just don't get it how a person's own family members and parents become his/ her enemy. Such a person who could achieve greater heights is being buried down by own family members and their choices. What is the outcome of such behavior? Such treatment? We just get nothing and ruin our own children with our own hands, destroy their dreams, snatch the right of life and happiness from them and put a tag/label on them of "the most dull or blunt person in the family" and we don't make them forget this ... We just continue in the form of taunts, changing behavior and much more...... 

WE NEED TO THINK...!!!
WE NEED TO STOP..!!!
#STOP_JUDGING...

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Written by : Atrooba Raza

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Language of soul

Silence has it's own meaning. Silence portray people in different ways. If a very talkative person is silent, it could mean that he's not well. Something is disturbing him or something is not well with him. But some people always remain silent. While sitting in a group where people are busy in their conversation, they observe others, listen to them, notice each and every point and say nothing. But they are full of nature. They observe the world like no one has done before. Every little deed of love creates a wonderful feeling in them or we can say it becomes special for them. Being soft and kind hearted they find beauty in each and everything. They enjoy the lively moments which usually other people ignore or are not able to see. They are full of life. 
Silence is the loudest of all noise. Silence is what makes the close heart speak.
Such people are in search of someone who would accept their nature, understand them and let them fly in their own thoughts without taking away their silent nature. Silent people have their own abilities like expressing reality through words, understanding their loved ones, making others happy, trying to fulfill dreams of other people, getting happy in other's happiness .
Silence enables one to successfully concentrate, mediate, understand and connect with the universe. 
Not everyone is capable of understanding such people. As a part of the world, we just criticize, blame and create a worse effect on such people by degrading them and commenting on their nature. Such people are really disgraced at such a level that it becomes difficult for them to get up and move on. They are being humiliated by our behavior. Being silent a person is usually emotional and sympathetic. They need to be understand and their silent nature must be accepted and respected.
Silence is talking to inner human.

Written by : Atrooba Raza

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East Women

I had seen a news yesterday where a west (Pakistani) girl take a chart where she wrote “My body my choice” actually she indirectly want from people to leave him like the west women’s do. But on that time my mind  remember the interview of Hillary Rodham Clinton (American Politician) she said The women’s of east are very lucky because they have mans to save them, those mans are in the form of father, a brother, a son and even her neighbor, who fight for them whenever they watch her in trouble. Moreover she says and in west we are very unlucky because here no one is honest and loyal as a true partner everyone love women for satisfying their sexual needs.

But our east women’s only see that side of west girl where they are safe and ignore the other side. And as a result in east many girls are run away from their houses for live an independent life but after only some days they realize the truth of world.

I don’t want to criticize the western women’s and their culture but we don’t change the truth in actual they also want a purify culture in the form of family a real family, in the form of good partner, in the form of true neighbors but unfortunately instead of going to the good way we choose bad once day by day.

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Written by “Yasir Munir”

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Age Show Maturity

Once when I open my Facebook, actually our daily routine book which we want every time even when we are waiting in the traffic signal, ops I distract my point anyhow come to the point I had seen two people are fighting on a post( in comments), so I read both people comment and it was hilarious for me on that time but when they left after a long talk I had seen one on them is 60 year old person and other one is a teen ager of 17 years, so when I dig down on that comments I observe young child says many things which are right but old man rejected his talk by saying I am older than you so I know more so shut up, it was very surprising movement for me and this conversation forced me to think about some questions and they are: is really age matter, is all young generation is wrong, is development doesn’t change the viewpoints of our ancestors.

No no no I don’t believe it, because I have seen many people who have th ability to overlap there previous generation, I have seen a driver who learn drive from that driver who driver car from many decades but the younger one drive good as compare to his/her teacher and it is overlapping, yes it is. 

Here I rap up my point of view by saying one of famous quote “Age does not define your maturity level remember it ”.

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Pitiful creatures

Women... Pitiful creatures of our society.. Born to follow order, to compromise, to become obedient, to bear, to stay quiet... Who is a perfect woman actually? The one who performs the household chores, who wakes up early in the morning, who earns but let you have her all pay to spend, who never buy anything for her without your permission, who performs all religious duties along with worldly affairs, the one who dress up according to your choice, simply the one who becomes a puppet and let you have control of herself, who never utter a single word for her betterment.. These are all facts, trends and rules set by our society for a woman to be perfect. The sad part of the story is we are following these facts from a vast period of time and the saddest part is that girls/women are bearing, keeping their mouth shut, considering it a reality, following all rules and leaving their identity somewhere behind... Talking about some examples.. While accepting a marriage proposal, the girl is expected to be perfect in all household chores, to be a perfect caretaker of house, to be the most beautiful girl as well as a literate person... Another example is of a daughter who has been up for several nights preparing for exams.. If she sleeps for a little bit late in morning and doesn't get up to do wash dishes or to clean the house she is brutally criticized... My question here is why didn't the criticizer think about her restlessness for back few nights? Why didn't he/she think that she might be not well or not have eaten anything in dinner or if she is suffering from something? Why don't the attention is being paid on such facts rather than she didn't get up to do some cleaning and is still sleeping? Why the own family members become selfish thinking only about their work or help and not considering the other person a human being like them? We just don't bother to look our daughters, sisters, wives and mothers as a human being we just want them to become a robot who is supposed to wake up early in the morning and perform all household chores not uttering a single word. They are also human beings having thirst of love, care, affection and attention.. We just don't bother to ask them if they are well or not.. If they had taken meal on time.. If they have any need ... If they don't feel good.. We just criticize for not performing a task on time.. For resting while the dishes are there to be washed... For studying for exams while the house is not cleaned.. Why we just don't ask them for what to be asked rather than blaming them for which they are not responsible.. Those facts are set by us. They are not compulsory for a female member to perform.

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Forbade being judgemental

Being judgmental leads one person to the phase where he judges the people with his own perception and mentality. When people saw others they judge them according to the way they have dressed up or perform any activity. For example, if a girl is dressed up in western clothes that doesn’t mean that she possesses any bad character or just want the appreciation of the people. The real fact can be totally opposite to their cast of mind, she might be wanted to remain updated and follows the new fashion trends but by living and following all that in some parameters. A person can be judgmental apart from this. The second away of judgmental is when a student gains less marks in his examination. Marks doesn’t describe the intelligence of a person. May be the toppers have gain such good results by the concept of wrote writing in the examinations, so one should not judge others on the way they are appearing in front of the society. We should eliminate such criticisms and should not practice that. Once habit of being judgmental can stagnate the other’s confidence and credence. We can stop this habit by accepting the others the way they present themselves in the society. We should not pass comments on the people about their dressing and should not talk about their character according to our frame of mind. Love and accept the people the way they are.

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Talent

Everyone has talent what's rare is the courage to follow it to the dark places it leads.

But the problem is no one help others to cognized talent and that’s why mostly talent had been wasted.

As we see there are trillions of people live in this whole world but only few talents came to the front it's all about the lake interest of our elders, when i was in 3rd year i had seen many seniors who guide us on that platforms where they exist, they don't care about our hidden talent they only help us by lead us to that way where they thought light is always brighten for everyone, those people would be right at least they help others by their experience but they don't have the ability to understand the future of new generation.

Mostly people thought have a good job is the main purpose of life and they guide others according to that. But in reality we want observers who observe their juniors hidden talent.

As i have written in my previous blog about trend where I wrote people of this universe focus on the latest trends, if that trend has popularity on that time then parents send their parents to that professions without examine their original talent. 

Nowadays the focus of many motivational speakers is to guide parents about this flaws.

When we choose the right talent then we forget over flaws because once we accepted our flaws, no one can use it against us. But our focus is to become a flawless person and that’s why we forget our real talent.

Even Mostly people forget their hidden talent only because of their customs, many people who have excellent voice doesn't sing because of their customs and religious issues.

Couple of months before Amir Khan (Bollywood hero) make a movie name secret superstar where he show the reality of a girl who have very beautiful voice but due to her father and religion issue she have no authority to sing in front of people but when she start singing, she became a super star from that movie  i have learn if we focus on our hidden-talent then no one stop us to become the best one in this whole world.

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Written by “Yasir Munir”

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