There is a race between students of every age
of securing first position in every sort of examination rather it is a pre
learner or a matric student. It's valid to secure good marks but it
is not good to judge a child on the basis of his result. We ruin our child's
own identity and personality by scolding them, taunting them and make them feel
embarrassed because of taking less marks. We compare them with the other kids
of relatives and neighborhood and make them think that they are nothing on
their own and their own abilities means nothing. They are useless. They are
dull. Every human has his own capabilities and are different from one another.
These tests and exams doesn't define how much a child is intelligent. His own
competencies, abilities, thinking and interests defines his inner beauty and
intelligence level in him and differentiates him with the others. Kids have to
go through variety of subjects so the level of their interest is different for
each subject. Some subjects appear to be easy for some students but at the same
time some students feel difficulty understanding those subjects not because
they are dull or they don't pay attention ( in most cases ). They may have problem
in understanding the new concepts in the first attempt or they may have problem
with the teachers explaining method or they are afraid to ask the teacher for
again explaining the same thing. Similarly when we forcefully make a child to
study the particular subject of our choice, it would become a burden on him. It
would be inconvenient for him to carry out result if he is not interested in
that subject or he doesn't get it. The selection of the field/ subject must be
left on child after his proper career counselling. He must be given advices for
right choice but shouldn't be forced to study a subject on behalf of parents or
teachers. How is the child going to bear the burden or stress which would let
him drowned in the flood of pressurized study. Here I would like to quote the
words of a great motivational speaker "Qasim Ali Shah" ... "You
are born for the work which takes you out of time and space." And what do
we do? We force our children to study the field of our choice or the one which
ensures money in the practical work. As a result, having no interest and
aptitude for the particular field, they get fail or attempt suicide in case of
extreme depression because of their family. And if they let themselves live and
bear the brutal treatment, they become psychopaths or let themselves on the
wrong path destroying their future with their own hands. I just don't get it
how a person's own family members and parents become his/ her enemy. Such a
person who could achieve greater heights is being buried down by own family
members and their choices. What is the outcome of such behavior? Such
treatment? We just get nothing and ruin our own children with our own hands,
destroy their dreams, snatch the right of life and happiness from them and put
a tag/label on them of "the most dull or blunt person in the family"
and we don't make them forget this ... We just continue in the form of taunts,
changing behavior and much more......
WE NEED TO THINK...!!!
WE NEED TO STOP..!!!
#STOP_JUDGING...
WE NEED TO STOP..!!!
#STOP_JUDGING...
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Written by : Atrooba Raza
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